How do I know which path to take at the appearance of a fork in the road? I usually take the turn that is least like my desire. I am rather selfish and usually if I want it- probably not the path that is desired by my Lord for me.
I agree that I have the right to bless myself, but experience has taught me, it is far better to wait on God than to serve myself.
"The Lord does not require religious acts, but He does require being active in our lives"